Standard divorce advice assumes good faith. With a narcissistic or high-conflict ex, your generosity can be used against you. Here's what the research shows, and how to negotiate anyway.

Divorce ranks as the second most traumatic adult life event on record. Here's what the divorce stress scale actually measures, why recovery takes years — not weeks — and what helps.

Therapy helped me understand my marriage. It did not help me leave it. Therapy alone isn't enough to get through divorce.